Legitimate (Monday, March 18th)

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Monday, March 18th

Legitimate: to make (someone or something) legitimate: 1. to give legal status to; 2. to show or affirm to be justified; 3. to lend authority or respectability to.

Proverbs 31

Speak out for those who cannot speak,
    for the rights of all the destitute.
Speak out, judge righteously,
    defend the rights of the poor and needy.

I was driving home from a conference last week when I stopped to buy gas and a few snacks. As I waited in line, the gentleman ahead of me struggled to understand the cashier. He obviously could not understand English very well. I knew he only needed her to repeat her words slowly, perhaps showing him what she meant. Instead she raised her voice, as if yelling would make a difference. Then she quickly became openly hostile to the poor man, her anger and frustration raging upon him as he stood there quietly.

I did not speak. Perhaps I was shocked, or afraid, or simply dumbfounded, but I did not speak. How I wish I would have asked the cashier why she was being so mean. I wish I would have set my trail mix down and left the place. I wish I would have stayed outside to tell the man how sorry I was. Instead, I quietly paid for my things and drove away.

I have regretted this ever since…

Especially when I arrived home and read the news about the 49 Muslims who are now dead because someone else was raging. If I remain silent, I am part of the problem. If I do not speak up for the oppressed, I am part of the problem. If I don’t speak against every act of meanness, arrogance, hostility and prejudice, I am silently condoning them. May I never, never, never remain silent in the face of hatred again.

In these times, we are desperately needed to legitimate our immigrants, refugees, and all others who are treated this way. From the above definitions, my work to legitimate this man would have been to “lend him the respectability” he deserved. My unearned respectability and authority to lend comes only from looking like the cashier and speaking the same language! I may have been able to help her see she was out of line. I could also have made her more upset, but at least the gentleman would not have felt so alone.

We are called to speak out for those who cannot speak. I think of our dear Jesus, who mostly remained silent before his tormentors. Did he wonder why no one had the love and courage to defend him, to speak against these atrocities? When we speak up for the oppressed, we are speaking for him, too. I am so sorry, Jesus.

Open my mouth, move my conscience, give me the courage, God, when this happens again. For sadly, I know it will.



All definitions are excerpted from the Merriam-Webster online dictionary at https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/

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4 Comments on “Legitimate (Monday, March 18th)

  1. Great post, I agree we must set forth good examples of good behavior, I would encourage in defense of the one obviously in a state of confusion due to a possible language barrier, I would caution pointing out perceived faults of the accuser (cashier), God alone is judge. We are called to compassion and to love one another. Listen for the Holy Spirit calling and leading you, it sounds like you have been processing this since you experienced and have had good reflection. Don’t beat yourself up, learn and move forward. Remember you to are human 😊 Jesus loves you and we can both say a prayer for the gentleman and the cashier. 💙🙏🏻

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    • Thank you, Charlotte, good food for thought. To not react but to accompany the man, perhaps just helping to communicate. Bless you! ❤

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  2. Today’s post is one of the many reasons your Posts are so heartwarming, and you are so loved! You are a human being in a mad world, and you admitted your failings! The Bible is full of Human failings and God still loves us! Another Devotion this morning in “Journeying with Jesus” was the Disciples who deserted Jesus when he was arrested! Peter denying Jesus 3 times and Disciples who fell asleep instead of praying with Jesus in the garden! Wowl! I bet they had second and even third thoughts! Aren’t we so very Blessed! We worship an awesome God! Blessings❣️🤗🙏🙏

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    • I hope you can comprehend how much you bless me with your encouragement and insight, dear Patricia! Thank you AGAIN!


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