Simply Soul Searching

(A Definition Reflection for Christmas Day)

PRESENT

You are present.
Existing.
You have always been and always will be.

Thank you, Richard Rohr! Yesterday’s meditation is perfect for this week’s Love theme. “Brothers sisters, it’s not really what we do that matters; it’s the energy with which we do it.”

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As we add symbols of love to our Advent wreath, we are reminded of one of the ways we may share our love with others- through our gift of hospitality.

Jacob’s love was shown by his faithful persistence and determination in the work he promised for Rachel. Love changes our perspective in our service; our service becomes joy-filled and significant when we are serving in love. Perhaps that is why we are told to “serve one another in love” (Galatians 5:13, NRSV). Jacob’s love gave him the strength and purpose to continue his pursuit of Rachel, despite the time and effort needed. As we think of the effort we put forth in serving our loved ones, Jacob’s story is a wonderful affirmation that love enables us to serve well.

In Leviticus, we are called to love our neighbor as ourselves. How does hospitality help us to love our neighbor in these times? Definitions of hospitality include words such as friendly, welcoming, generous… treatment of guests and strangers. Our neighbor is anyone- friend, family member, stranger- who is near enough for us to reach out with loving hospitality. When we are acting in kindness, responding with patience, refraining from anger, offering help, greeting with a smile, listening without distraction, or putting others first, we are examples of friendly and welcoming hospitality.

Psalm 143 reminds us that we need to be filled up before we can be poured out in loving service. We need God’s love and we need Gods guidance in order to serve in love- and to know which way we should serve! A few minutes spent with God each day reaps inspiration and direction for our daily living. Yes, we have plenty to do, especially during these holiday times, but our time with God should be our first priority.

Look at your items of love on the Advent wreath. Thank God for the gift of love shown in God’s son, Jesus, and for the gift of love found in our family and friends. We can show that love in our hospitality to others!

The fourth candle among our remembrances becomes our symbol of love.

Light the fourth candle.

Mary’s Story

Read Luke 2:1-20

“And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth, and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn.” (Luke 2:7 NRSV)

(We may not have all of the exact information as to what really happened when Jesus was born. The story was written much later and the facts may not be accurate. But this story provides faithful inspiration and wonderful lessons for us all…)

When we read this beautiful story, we might picture lovely, peaceful moments surrounding the birth of Jesus. But let’s put ourselves in Mary’s place. She had just given birth in the most austere conditions: no hospital room with people attending to her needs… no comforts of her own home… no comforts of ANY home! Mary birthed Jesus with Joseph as her only helper. She had no lovely cradle in which she could place Jesus, but only a simple manger. Imagine tired, uncomfortable Mary trying to figure out how to make the best of this situation- only to have unexpected company arrive! After receiving the angelic announcement, the shepherds wasted no time to get to the stable.

The first Christmas came without preparations, without a color-coordinated nursery readied and waiting. The gift for us is this lesson: Jesus came anyway. God sent Jesus without waiting for us to be perfect. God sent Jesus without our preparations in place. God sent Jesus in God’s timing– the only perfect timing! And Mary then shows us what true hospitality is- her hospitality of heart. Mary welcomed God’s plan and God’s son into her life sharing all she had to offer with an open and generous spirit.

This Advent, we may have had interruptions in our plans. Our schedules may not have flowed as smoothly as we had hoped. Unforeseen changes and challenges may have altered our expectation of an ideal Christmas. We may not have spent time with God as often as we had planned. We are very near to Christmas Day, and yet we may feel so unprepared, not completely ready for the celebration of Jesus’ birth.

Jesus comes anyway. God’s precious gift of grace, Jesus, comes to us in God’s timing- before we are ready or worthy! Jesus the Christ is already IN our hearts! We are not perfect, but like Mary, we can offer our hospitality of heart for this God’s presence, this Jesus. We can welcome and embrace this wonderful gift of love- ready or not!

2. Love Shared with Difficult Ones

Light the peace, hope and joy candles.
Read Leviticus 19:18

Leviticus includes all of the commandments Moses presented to the Israelites. In this verse we read the commandment, “You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against any of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.” (NRSV) Loving is so much easier with those who love us back! But this commandment specifically tells us to love those difficult ones who have hurt us; those whom we would rather “kick back!”

As we consider how we may grow in love this week, is there anyone you need to forgive? Have you been holding any grudges that  might now be lovingly released? How might doing so help you to love yourself better, too?

 When we have been hurt by another, it is difficult to just let it be or walk away, and not seek revenge or get defensive. How do the words, “I am the Lord” strengthen and help us to obey this commandment?

The Fourth Week of Advent: LOVE

As our final touch to the Advent wreath we will add our symbols of love: photos, hearts, Valentines, or any meaningful small items. We all have the love of God, and we share the love of God with others- family, friends, and even strangers. This week of love is a precious one. As we draw ever closer to the birth of Jesus, we hope to draw nearer in love to God and to one another.

Love Shared With Dear Ones

Light the Peace, Hope and Joy candles.

Read Genesis 29:14b-20

What a love story! Jacob had been working for his uncle, Laban, and had fallen in love with Laban’s daughter, Rachel. During a discussion of wages, Jacob asked Laban if he would be allowed to marry Rachel in return for seven years of work. That was a big commitment, but in verse 20 we read, “Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.” If we were to read on, we would learn that he agreed to serve seven more years for Rachel!

In our loving service to those dearest to us, we generally consider the time and effort shared as gifts, not burdens. We delight in doing for others, blessing them out of love for them. Recall some of these times when you have served well- and perhaps for a long time. Despite the energy spent and frustrations along the way, did you find delight in loving and blessing others? Would you have changed any time spent with loved ones?

 Is there an opportunity to love and serve a dear one, currently or in the near future? An aging parent, an ailing friend, a lonely family member? What steps will you take to keep your heart refreshed, your energy strengthened, and your soul connected with God?

The ribbons and other items in our wreath remind us of the joy promised and given to us for our journey through life. It has been said that joy is different from happiness. Happiness seems to come from outside influences, such as times of success, good fortune, or ideal situations. Joy can come even during the most trying times; a gift from God bubbling up from within our souls. You might like to add something unexpected to the joy layer in your wreath- a surprising color or item- to remind you of the unexpected joy in which God astounds us.

As the Israelites were instructed to find joy in the Word of God, we too, can find joy in following God’s commands- but also in the humility and forgiveness we mercifully receive when we fail to follow them. God’s Word is a guide for our life’s path and we find joy when we travel well. But God’s Word also brings us joy when we stray from the path and are lovingly guided back to continue our journey.

We recall Isaiah’s image of the desert becoming lush, and all of creation rejoicing. Throughout life we will have times of emptiness and times of fullness. We have experienced the ups and downs, the deaths and resurrections of this earthly journey. Through each of them, we grow to trust God’s promise of abundant life, and we learn to rejoice, no matter what our situation may be. Our joy comes from within and bursts forth when we remove any obstructing attitudes or expectations.

Psalm 100 is a beautiful “thank you note” to God for all of God’s blessings. Our hearts and souls become “thank you notes” of joy when we gratefully recognize and appreciate our many God-given blessings.

The wreath is becoming lush, full and joyful, isn’t it? We are coming ever closer to revealing-receiving God’s greatest gift, Jesus Christ. This is the best reason for joy in our hearts! We will always have joy in the journey, for we have the constant love, companionship, guidance and salvation given through Jesus.

 The third candle surrounded by colorful, unexpected items then becomes our symbol of joy.

Light the third candle.

Mary’s Story

Read Luke 1:46-56

“My spirit rejoices in God my Savior” (Luke 1:47 NRSV)

Here is Mary’s beautiful Magnificat, an outpouring of her praise and joy to God! Her life had changed completely, but she found joy within, a gift from God: “My spirit rejoices in God my Savior!” Many of her words are similar to Hannah’s heartfelt prayer of thanks and praise as she dedicated her son, Samuel, to God. We know that Mary will also surrender her son, Jesus, to live as God’s precious son.

Traditionally we hold Mary in high esteem; as the mother of Jesus, we believe she had to be nearly perfect. But Mary was human. In Mary’s words of praise, she acknowledged her humble lowliness. Perhaps the only perfect quality God needed in Mary was that she be totally open to and accepting of God’s plan for her life. This is a good lesson for us. Perhaps the only perfect quality God hopes for each of us is that we will be open to and accepting of the abundant life God created us to live.

We are all given opportunities to birth new life, aren’t we? We can birth new life by offering help and hope to others; we can birth new ideas of love and acceptance; we can birth new life in ourselves by listening for God’s invitations and directions. May all of our “births” be a result of our obedience and humility before God. Like Mary and Hannah, may we dedicate our lives and any new God-given “births” entirely to God. The joy of the Lord- our joy IN the Lord- will come bubbling forth in all of life’s experiences.

This week of Advent, may we be aware of our shortcomings and sinfulness. But may we rediscover joy in knowing that our loving God is sending us a guiding savior for the trials and victories of each day. Like Mary, may we be mindful of our many blessings and joyfully thank God for all of the ups and downs of this abundant life. May our one perfect quality be a total readiness to live God’s plan for us, watching for even unexpected opportunities to birth new life in ourselves or others.

Focus for the rest of this week:

 As you creatively bake, wrap, decorate or celebrate, consider what God may creatively be planning for YOU. Pray for readiness and acceptance of any new God-given birth opportunity; for in doing so, we find our joy.

For the next layer, gather any symbols of love for you: photos of loved ones, cards received, hearts, red items, Valentines, etc.

3. Joy Arising Through Gratitude

 Light the candles.

Read Psalm 100

“The Lord is good and his love endures forever.” We have many reasons to celebrate because of God’s unfailing, merciful, gracious love. When we consider ALL of the blessings we have from God, our hearts DO rejoice and praise God- and we feel abundant joy in doing so! I imagine God delights in our praise and joy , because God knows we are appreciating and accepting God’s gifts, so freely and generously given.

Begin naming the blessings you have received from our generous God of love. Write a note of thankfulness and joy to God in response for all you have been given.

2. Joy Springing From the Desert

 Light the candles.

Read Isaiah 35

A reminder of our first week’s desert focus, Isaiah describes how the desert, parched land and wilderness will be glad, rejoice and even blossom! The sand will indeed become lush and full of life. The redeemed will sing, and gladness and joy will overtake them. What a wonderful promise: joy found springing forth out of the desert wilderness.

Have the cares and responsibilities of daily living left you parched and dry? Are there concerns that seem to be robbing joy from your life? How do Isaiah’s words bless you this week? 

Just as life is hidden deep in the desert, joy is deep within our souls. What obstructions or attitudes might you remove in order to let the joy bubble up?